Anger is an emotion
Anger is not a behaviour, but an emotion. How it gets expressed might be through behaviour, but the cause of the angry behaviour is always emotional. Therefore, in order to change the behaviour you first must change the emotion! This is the most common error that parents and teachers make in trying to reduce aggression, anger and frustration in children.
As parents or teachers we need to hear the feelings of fear, despair or danger that the anger hides, because only when a child feels safe can they think clearly and act right. It’s really important to understand this insight because it’s treating the emotion, not the behaviour, where success will be found. When a child is upset they can’t be influenced by reason; they can only respond to emotional care. We can show you how to do this.
Understanding Aggression: a treatment intervention for Angry Children
Price is in New Zealand Dollars. This intervention can be downloaded as soon as payment is complete. Be sure to click the word “Download” on the pop up window after payment. Item will be sent to your downloads folder on your computer.
A four page detailed booklet description of the causes of hostile aggressive children with a thorough explanation of an attachment and developmental approach to reducing the frequency and intensity of this troubling childhood problem
Do parents or teachers always like what they see in their children? Few kids are the model of perfection ( I haven’t met any yet, but their may be one or two!). Kids do things that make us disappointed or uncomfortable. The angry child is a good example. How do you change an angry, aggressive child into a cooperative child?
What will this intervention teach me?
This intervention outlines the developmental and attachment based causes of aggression. Once we can see the aggressive child correctly, we gain a much better understanding of how to deal with it. The intervention outlines specific attitudes and behaviours for parents and caregivers to reduce the intensity and frequency of anger in children. You will learn to parent from the inside out. All our interventions are attachment rich and are not based on behavioural or cognitive psychology and therefore offer parents a real alternative to the most common answers.
Relationships Matter
We value the relationship between parent and child and teacher and child above all, and our interventions reflect this.
Our guarantee: If this intervention does not meet your expectations and value for money we offer you a free, 30 minute telephone or skype consultation, and your money back.
Price is in New Zealand Dollars. This intervention can be downloaded as soon as payment is complete.
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